Helping you to make a happier home

Helping you to make a happier home

Do you feel like your house is trying to tell you something?

Has it felt ‘odd’ since you moved in? Is it hard to ‘make it a home’ or to feel truly settled? Maybe the pets are uneasy, not sleeping well and preferring some rooms to others?

Or the humans are arguing a lot, never feeling well or suffering from one illness after another?  Do the children talk about night-time visitors or always wake squished up at one side of the bed?

Or is the house just darned creepy and cold?

Houses, just like people, can be affected by where they are and what’s gone before… Every home has a unique history, location, a long line of previous owners, a set of new owners and its own collection of furniture – all of which can be positive, negative, or just OK. But, if two or three negative elements combine, it can create difficulty, unease, distress or just a sense of feeling ‘not quite right’.

To add to the mix, it’s often only one or two adults in the house that are overtly affected, usually along with one of the children and possibly a pet(s) – as they’re the most sensitive ones – which makes the symptoms easy to ignore, attribute to other causes, or be dismissed as ridiculous.

But happily these energies are possible to identify, isolate and clear – once we know what and where they are. And because it’s pets that often react to negativity, it’s not only human homes that need clearing …. the inhabitants of stables, fields, kennels, pens, barns and horse boxes etc can benefit hugely too.

What causes negative vibes?

Homes can sit above deep underground water courses, on negative geopathic lines and on land with a turbulent history – all invisible to our modern eye but impacting sensitive residents.  Geopathic lines are lines of energy that circle the globe, some positive, some negative and all criss crossing along their routes.  Some hold such strong negative energy that trees will grow leaning away from them, while some animals refuse to cross them –  insisting on a round-about route.  The points where positive lines cross can bring a buoyant, joyful energy where anything is possible and everyone feels comfortable.  A negative intersection does just the reverse, magnifying the gloom.

Underground water courses can be moving or stagnant, bringing a slow, draining energy to a home, whereas an area of busy local history can usher in feelings that at best are ‘on edge’, fearful and making it difficult to relax.

Past owners who have passed on,  who loved their homes, often want to stay close – usually with all the best intentions and delight – but they can put household pets on edge or confuse children who see ‘the nice old lady at the top of the stairs’.  Some former residents, reluctant to move onto heavenly homes can be livid at new residents moving in to ‘their’ house  and show huge disapproval at any changes to their interior – crossly moving ornaments, tools and creating cold spots in favourite rooms. 

 

Pets too can be determined to stay around their favourite home – and though it’s rare for the current pets to mind too much, we did have a client with a cat fur allergy who reacted badly to five previous feline occupants insistent on sleeping on the sofa!

Sometimes even furniture can hold negative energy – so a lovely new purchase from an auction or charity shop can bring a lot more in than just somewhere to keep the best china!

The upshot is a house that often doesn’t feel quite like a home – where the residents are out of kilter, in limbo, where more illness is present and irritation and where they feel happier once they’re away from home. Children and pets can be disturbed and distressed, or amused and entertained by pleasant visitors … and children usually bemused by ‘why no one else can see their friends’.

Trying to sell these houses doesn’t work either – as negative homes rarely have a second viewing.

My clients are usually at their wits’ end.

How the energies are uncovered and discovered

Working either remotely from a plan of your home or visiting the house in person, I use a pendulum to find the energy spots, just like our forefathers used the pendulum to find water.

The process is the same for houses, land, stables, barns etc.

– Moving from one room or area to another, searching for the most negative spot.

– Working from outside or from the boundary – to find where lines enter and leave… It’s not always a crossing point that causes problems;
some issues arrive on a single line so knowing its route allows us to clear it with more precision.

– Uncovering visitors and their reasons for visiting.

– Finding items of furniture or the like which are not settled in their new home

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What’s the process to get rid of energies?

– Once the key list is created and it’s clear what’s going on, we uncover the order of priority. Some energies stand alone, others are connected to each other, so dealing with one can have a domino effect. Order of energy management can be really important and delicate!

– The dissipation or diversion of energies is done through a wide variety of means e.g. Lines can be moved or diverted with earth acupuncture,which means by interrupting the force and sending it on another route.  Working with crystals can change the vibration or frequency of crossed lines, while visitors usually need interaction to understand why their presence is not welcome and then need help to ‘move on’.

– A general cleansing and balancing of the energy then takes place to ensure the changes and work have settled.

Do I need to believe in it, or anything funny, for it to work?

No! You can be as dubious, suspicious and deeply sceptical as you wish and it’ll still work just as well.  And we won’t leave you with a list of dos and don’ts involving lighting candles and incense.  Just a house you can live in again, in comfort.

“We’re smiling often now – and I hadn’t realised that we’d just stopped doing that.” 

“The house is warmer. It used to feel cold and clammy – almost sticky – and now I’m in a t shirt, which would never have been enough before.”

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How long will it take? And how many visits?

A home visit takes about 2 hours, in a weekday or weekend appointment and usually one visit is enough. A quiet time is best, but we’ve worked around hordes of children and animals, so it’s not essential – equally we’ve also worked in houses where the owner is away and that’s fine too. We can provide a report as required and sometimes recommend, for the health of the house, that we come back for a top up after six months.  That usually takes just an hour.  Many of our clients can also have an annual check up.

Can you do a house that’s overseas?

We do a lot of work remotely, for clients who live overseas or where travel costs would be prohibitive. All we need is an A4 plan, as much to scale as possible and with a good amount of room around the edges, for us to make notes. It’s important too, to have an idea of outbuildings, the garden and how the property is situated on the land.

Costs: Usually

Remote work from plan:
£100, which involves on-going monitoring work until energy settled.

Home visit:
£250 for average house
plus travel @50p per mile.

These rates are all subject to further negotiation depending on property size/type and distance.

What clients say after a home clearing

“The children never used to use the playroom but now it’s ‘brighter’ as if someone has put a 100w bulb in – though we haven’t touched the lights – and the kids are playing happily on a daily basis.”

“I no longer sneeze when I go into my daughter’s study.”

“Our house sold within a week.”

“Someone asked if I’d decorated (which I hadn’t!) as she felt it was fresh and clean feeling.”

Contact 

House Harmony

To get in touch call Carey Warden on 07940 517 514 or email: carey@house-harmony.co.uk